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4月15日

14/04/2007 got robbed for the 2nd time in France

 
8h15 pm at Montparnasse,  5 around 16-yr-olds  (one black and 4 arabians ) were waiting at the top of escalator to metro 12. I felt sth wrong when stepping onto the escalator, but there was no way back. I became prey. The black one quickly + skillfully grabbed my wallet out of my handbag and dashed downwards, leaving me and his buddies there. Strangely i have never kept so calm in such a situation, i told them frankly there was not a single cent in my wallet, just some student cards. I required my cards back. His friend did not believed what i said but nicely shouted to the other end of the escalator for me `` leave the cards to her``.  After a while, the black guy, failing to  get sth valuable, came back with my wallet and returned everything to me. I said thank you then headed for the metro. The train came and they got on it. I got on the same wagon deliberately and standed an arm`s length away from them. The one who had taken my wallet was kinda embarrassed while his friend said to me that it was a joke...I dont know if i will be lucky enouth to meet robbers with such sympathy,  but they were not born to be robbers, they are delinquent with good soul. The fact they gave me back what seemed to be important to me did deserve some rewards.
 
I thought of giving them some money, however i did not because
a> I had only around 4 euros on me and had planned to get some hankie from the supermarket on the way home.
b> Money are so hard to earn, imaging standing whole day as shop assistant for a hand-to-mouth existence there days, even myself spend it wisely, let alone doing charity.
c> I did have some 20 euros in the inner pocket of my handbag, but i could not give it to anybody as it was red envelope money.
 
Lesson of the day: keep cool like Michael Scofield in dangerous and unexpected situation, and you will win psychologically your enemy.
 
 
- This is written to see if i will reason the same way in the future, say 3 or 5 yrs` time -
 
 
4月6日

Science of life - a website to recommend

 
 
A fantastic discouvery early in the morning...
 
I randomly ran into this site http://www.erectionphotos.com/visitorsPix/visitorsGallery.htm while checking a word online.  First laughed out loud browsing those self-made pictures and the description of  the submitters. Then i found it was a really good corner to talk about seemingly male`s intimate things. There should be an equivalent site for female.
 
I think that making comparison is a means of making progress. Thats basically what i apply to daily life. Before i moved into where i currently live, my roommates had never talked about sex-related subjects explicitly, according to them. But now they feel more comfortable to show their nipples to talk about health-related problems. Its never shameful to get to know human being`s physical structure, Robert Winston is a great scientist on that point.
 
This site is specially recommended to my penis-admirer friend who should love it, esp these days when she came to my place and listened repeatedly to Justin Timberlake`s songs and kept crying ` god, he is soooooooo hot`. It drove me crazy, even during absolute concentration, Justin`s `what goes around comes around`` keeps buzzing and humming to my ears like a bee...
 
and to Ben as well who`s busy at his work and passion and might not have time to spot site as this,
 
to all those friends around.
 
 
3月4日

randem thinking...

 
 
CAKES THAT LOOK DELICIOUS MIGHT NOT TASTE GOOD,
CLOTHES THAT LOOK CHIC MIGHT NOT FIT YOU,
WOMEN THAT LOOK BEAUTIFUL MIGHT BE BIMBO,
GUYS THAT LOOK HANDSOME MIGHT BE HIMBO...
BEAUTY DOES COUNT THO.
 
 
12月3日

Disclaimer

Disclaimer
 
 
 The fact that my blog is mostly written in English is not  that i want to show off my foreign languages, (I HAVE NOTHING TO SHOOOOOOOOOW OFF, BOTH MY ENGLISH AND FRENCH SUCK...) i just dont want my parents know what i am writing/``thinking`` about in my PRIVATE space. Though in his fifties, my dad has a strong curiosity and always ready to do what our younger generation have no time to do...
 
The song on  my blog is Wake me up when sept ends by Green day.
 
From 27th Nov, 2006, i am no long a student.............haha a job seeker. 
 
Well I think ...that`s all.
 
 
9月15日

Dad`s view on relation between money and job 15/09/06

 
一个正常人,生活需要金钱支撑,且金钱越多越好,有着坚强的后盾,心里过日子很充实.那怕就是捐献给弱者,也是对社会的一种回报.钱在社会的生存中显得相当重要,常说,没有什么都不要紧,最怕没有钱..阶级是通过经济来衡量的,无产\中产\资产.,很多人都想创造财富积累后进入资产阶级,那怕是中产也好,活得逍遥自在.
 
第一个问题? 显然是特出工资高,尽管工作不是自己很热衷,但毕竟不是自己最讨厌的工作,在自己能胜任,且在工作中抽空寻求自己的所想做的工作,待时机成熟有一定的经济基础后再做自己喜欢的工作,那不是更好吗! 
 
第二个问题?

这是个碌碌无为的人,没有远大理想,只看到自己的一面,不看到社会发殿的一面,尽管现在做的是自己中意的工,但社会是在不断变化的,你现在中意此工作,但新的事物出来,再吸引你,怎办?
人又老,钱又无.  人生中很多事,都不是以自己的意志为转移的.讲够现实,才是出路!
 
8月4日

magic

03/08/06
 
another magical day... Merci Dieu...life is all about surprises, problem occurred, just cross the bridge when u come to it...worry nothing about it.
 
 plus de stage, plus de boulot, vacances jusqu`a la fin aout. cool.......mais le memoire
8月1日

one month left...

most of classmates are on holiday at this time...
 
being punished once again by doing things in the last minute... hell...bad habits kill... i should have finished all work 3 months earlier. its too late to regret tho, one month, 30 days, allez !!
 
i am glad that Julie is kinda in the same situ tho, haha.  
3月8日

amour

Love 爱情 amour 


 

No man or woman is worth your tears,and the one who is ,won't make you cry.

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

Never frown,even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

To the world you may be one person,but to one person you may be the world. 

Don't waste your time on a man/woman,who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

Don't try to hard,the best things come when you least expect them to.

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one,so that when we finally meet the person,we will know how to be grateful.

Don't cry because it is over,smile because it happened.

Life is a pure flame,and we live by an invisible sun within us.
-------Sir Thomas Browne

2月27日

Funny quotes

I do not participate in any sport with ambulances at the bottom of a hill.
 -- Erma Bombeck
 
A good listener is usually thinking about something else.
 -- Kin Hubbard
 
Most human beings have an almost infinite capacity for taking things for granted.
 -- Aldous Huxley
 
Cab drivers are living proof that practice does not make perfect.
 -- Howard Ogden

My husband and I are either going to buy a dog or have a child. We can't decide whether to ruin our carpet or ruin our lives.
 -- Rita Rudner

Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are. That is the difference between the sexes.
 -- Oscar Wilde 

 

 Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
 -- Oscar Wilde  

People seem to enjoy things more when they know a lot of other people have been left out of the pleasure.
 -- Russel Baker

It is not necesssary to understand things in order to argue about them.
 -- Caron de Beaumarchais

2月23日

C`est marrant ...je les ai choppé quelque part ...

Si Je T'aime Alors Aime Moi..


Si J'ai Mal Au Coeur Alors Soigne Moi..


Si Je Pleure Alors Console Moi..


Si Maintenant J'ai Peur Alors Protège Moi..


Mais..


Si Demain Je Meurs..


Je T'en Supplie Ne Me Suis Pas..
 
 
*****************************************************************************
***I***l*O*v*e***y*O*u***M*y***H*e*a*r*t***

 
E n v i e _ d e _ t O u t_,_E n v i e _ d e _ r i e n

E n v i e _ d e _ t O i _,_E n v i e _ d u _ m i e n

L O i n _ d e _ t O i _,_L O i n _ d e _ m O i

U n _ p ' t i t _ " n O u s " _,_A _ l ' a u t r e _ b O u t

O n _ s ' a i m e _ p e u t - ê t r e _?_C a _ j ' e n _ s u i s _ s û r e

C e s _ k i l O m è t r e s _,_T O u j O u r s _ s i _ d u r s

S i _ t ' a i m e r _ e s t _ u n e _ f O l i e _ a l O r s

P a r d O n n e _ m O i _ d e _ t e _ d i r e

Q u e _ f O l l e _ j e _ s e r a i _t O u t e _ m a _ v i e ...

M a i s _ l ' b O n _,_C O m m e _ l ' m a u v a i s

U n e _ c h O s e _ e s t _ S û r e _,_C a _ r e s t e r a _ g r a v é


***I***l*O*v*e***y*O*u***M*y***H*e*a*r*t***
 
2月20日

finally i have a song on my site

glad that i have a song here... this is not my favo song, i stole  the html from a friend...
1月28日

unbelievable thing happened...

Jan 27th, 06 things i could never imagine to happen occurred to me:  i got robbed by a black guy  in the daytime.
 
 i was walking on a boulvard, lots of passersby ... someone suddenly dragged my handbag from behind me. shocked by the attack, i shouted out loud( not loud enough actually that people can hear) and the robber was probably scared and dashed away . thanks god that i met a novice!!
 
well anyway even if he succeeded, he would regret because there was actually nothing big in my bag, if he got caught by the police because of that, he would be laughing out to death. me 2>
 
it might be a sign though, a warning or something that implies me something dangerous will happen on me. i have been holding a naive view about the society, thinking everythig is safe and peace, time to wake up...
 
 
finally this might a good lesson of security thing for me.  
 
 
12月10日

shared space

well, influenced by friends and dad, i just found this msn space interesting .......a real place that can share your happiness with friends and family memebers  no matter where they are.  terrific!

my favo poem

 

                  

世界上最遥远的距离

 

(SANJING 根据泰戈尔原作改写)

 

 

世界上最遥远的距离,不是地球和月亮,

而是在你我之间:我就站在你的面前,你却不知道我爱你

 

 

 

世界上最遥远的距离,不是我就站在你的面前,你却不知道我爱你

 

而是你明明知道我爱你,而你却故意不把我放在你的眼里

 

 

 

世界上最遥远的距离,不是你明明知道我爱你,而你却故意不把我放在你的眼里

 

而是明明你也深深地爱着我,可你不敢承认,因为你缺乏勇气

 

 

 

世界上最遥远的距离,不是明明你也深深地爱着我,可你不敢承认,因为你缺乏勇气

 

而是你明明知道你爱我、我也爱你,可你却故意用你的冷漠在你我之间筑起一条难以跨越的沟渠

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La distance la plus éloignée du monde

 

 

 

La distance la plus éloignée du monde

 

Ce nest pas entre la lune et la terre,

 

Mais cest entre toi et moi :

 

Je me trouve juste devant toi

 

Et tu ne sais pas que je taime !

 

 

 

La distance la plus éloignée du monde

 

Ce nest pas que je me trouve juste devant toi et

 

Tu ne sais pas que je taime.

 

Mais cest que tu sais parfaitement que je taime , mais

 

Tu fais semblant de ten foutre !

 

 

 

La distance la plus éloignée du monde

 

Ce nest pas que tu sais parfaitement que je taime et

 

Tu fais semblant de ten foutre.

 

Mais cest que tu maimes aussi très clairement et

 

Tu nas pas le courage daccepter que tu maimes !

 

 

 

La distance la plus éloignée du monde

 

Ce nest pas que tu maimes aussi très clairement et

 

Tu nas pas le courage daccepter que tu maimes.

 

Mais cest que tu sais très bien que je taime et tu maimes aussi, mais

 

Tu quand même construis exprès un abime entre toi et moi

 

Avec ton coeur froid et dure !

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              Te rends-tu compte que si demain tu meurs, ton employeur 
       te remplacera sans aucun problème en quelques jours?
      Mais ta famille que tu laisses derrière toi, souffrira de

 t'avoir perdu  pour le reste de sa vie.
                               

 Penses-y un instant .
           Nous passons plus de temps au travail qu'en famille, voici  
un investissement insensé, qu'en dis-tu?
                      Bien qu'y a-t-il derrière cette histoire?
               Sais-tu ce que veut dire le mot « FAMILLE » en anglais?


                                        FAMILY
                                 F « Father = Papa »
                                   A « And = et »
                                M « Mother = Maman »
                                    I « I = je »
                                  L « Love = aime »
                                  Y « You = vous »
                             PAPA ET MAMAN JE VOUS AIME


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